Every word that comes out of your mouth is a self-fulfilling prophecy.  I see women complaining who are literally slitting their own throat by saying “Nothing good ever happens to me”, “Men always treat me bad”,  “There are no nice single guys out there”, “I was just born unlucky”.

I had a friend who’s husband lost his job and I remember her saying “How could things get any worse? What else could happen?” Then they lost their home and she repeated the same thing “What else could happen”?   Then her husband started drinking and in just six months died of cirrhosis of the liver.  At his funeral she started to say the same thing “What else could Happen” and I said, "Would you SHUT UP and start saying, “Thank you God for this day” unless you want to join him, because that’s “WHAT ELSE COULD HAPPEN”.  Shocked at what I said she promised to start thanking God for the good that was on It’s way instead of bitching about the past or present. I am happy to say she is still alive and doing much better.

ACT AS IF things are coming to you and they will. (Good or bad) Luck is believing that there is a spirit inside you listening to what you say so you’d better speak the same language.  “I want” means there isn’t enough for me.  It is the opposite of faith. You can wish, desire, deserve and receive. But the minute you say, “I want” You just poked a hole in the bucket.

I remember saying “I’m getting married before I’m twenty” it was a destination. A date with destiny.  Faith is a statement of truth before the fact. The statement drew a man to marry.   Women, who are LOOKING, don’t have a destination. It’s like buying a ticket on a merry go round.    People say, "Well, how can I say something that isn’t true.  I’ll feel like a liar or foolish."  I tell them, "If you place an order in a catalog you expect to get it don’t you?  Well Gods a lot more reliable and he is sitting in your chest listening to every word you are saying, ordering it all up and wishing a lot more for you than you are asking." 

Start making statements of truth before the fact, (faith) will get you somewhere, something and someone wonderful.