Intelligent people don’t hang out in bars. They work all day. I have started getting a lot of clients that were previously sitting at home doing nothing (finally) get a personal life going. Thirty-six of them got married to people they have met on the Internet. Others were amazed and delighted at the responses they received and women who previously felt unwanted and unattractive just because they weren’t 19 years old and skinny found there were plenty of men who were interested in reality and them.

People who say, “only losers do that” are the ones that lose. They miss a chance to open a door to humanity people and life. What you are going to meet is people. Not better or worse than you just alone and reaching out to another human being looking for a match, a friend, or contact.

If you don’t get obsessed with meeting your soul mate on the first meeting, it can be enlightening, elevating, interesting, entertaining and romantic. If you don’t feel a good connection on the first contact you can say, “thank you for meeting me, I think you are very nice, but I just don’t think we are suited”, and then just don’t offer your telephone number to them.

Men marry women because they are afraid they will loose them if they don’t
The Internet empowers women. If men aren’t being attentive, just go back on the internet.

1. Don’t spend months on line before meeting. Two weeks max
2. Women have them come to meet you. No flying to them
3. Put a recent picture of your face on line
4. Woman let them contact you.
5. Meet in a public place for coffee for the first meeting
6. Be honest
7. Don’t have sex for a while. Wait till he proves he isn’t an internet cruiser
8. Only meet local men. Long distant relationships

Only meet one man every couple of weeks. Otherwise you can become overwhelmed and discouraged