| As long as you want or need the approval
of someone, they have control over you (power). Usually, when a man
is breaking up with a woman, he
makes (her think) there was something wrong or lacking (with her). When the
real truth is “they just wanted someone or something else.” Not
a very nice thing to do.
I have seen truly beautiful women who feel badly about themselves. So damaged
that they are afraid to date or love again, which is what the man wanted when
he left. (His non-approval) still controlling her even after he is gone.
As long as she still wants his approval, there isn’t room for another
man in her life and he knows it. If he is calling, it
is NOT for your benefit, it is for his. He isn’t calling to be nice. He is calling
because (he knows) there is really nothing wrong with you and wants to make
sure (you haven’t) figured that out yet.
If you talk to him (you are) still wanting him or his approval. You
need to cut those invisible strings and see the truth - he
is NOT nice. Change your
telephone number; don’t return calls; don’t talk to him, or he
will believe you still love him and are giving him permission to ruin your
self-image, future and life.
He’s been bad and you’ve been good. So why should he be happy and
you be miserable. You need to stomp on his self-image and poke a hole in the
ego (you helped blow up).
Tell him you saw a psychic you were going to meet a man with a twelve-inch
d--- that was going to make you feel so good!! You’d forget all about
(old --What’s his name) and hang up.
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Invisible Strings