Our loved ones are still with us after they pass, even if we can no longer see them.  They can communicate with us, through feelings, dreams, sounds, lights, visions and other people.

          Guilt (theirs or yours) is the only thing spirit can’t break threw.  Forgive yourself or them.  When you say I love you and their name or yours, you open the door to the other side.  Also asking all the spirits of love understanding and compassion to come into the room will bring them to you. 

          I remember getting a letter from a favorite aunt of mine two years after her death.  Her daughter had found the letter addressed to me. She found it exactly when I was going through some real difficulties. My cousin had no knowledge of my troubles, but (from the other side) her mother (my aunt) did. Her letter was what I needed to hear.  

          Another visit came in a repetitive dream. My girlfriends’ mother and father were flying on a plane to visit them in the vision. The same dream persisted night after night for three weeks. I finally asked my daughter if anything was up with Buddy and Myrna, because of the repetitive dream I was having. She said, “Yes, Myrna dad had died of a heart attack in the plane on the way to visit her.

sssssI called Myrna and told her that her father was trying to give her a message through me.  That he said he was O.K. and happy but that he was worried about the grandchildren.  After I gave her the message, the dream stopped and (the children did have serious problems) the grandparent was trying to warn her.

sssssMyrna’s husband Buddy died years later.  After his death he came to me for three years and gave me messages for Myrna.  “Tell her I’m not really dead.   She just can’t see me but I am with her. Letting her know there was life after death.  They were both atheists.

sssssIt took my dad three years before he decided to show himself. Then he came right up in my face and said “don’t work after dark.” He always did like telling me what to do.  Then he came seven years later to tell me my mother was having problems (she did three months later.

sssssThey hang around for about three years or until your emotions calm down and then they come like angels when you need them.