Women Pursuing Men

As a hypnotherapist working with men’s sexuality and their intimate relationship, I’ve personally talked to thousands of men from age 18 to 80. Interestingly enough, there was one thing they ALL had in common. A mental attitude. They all said this.” If a woman calls me or pursues me, I take NO responsibility for what happens in the relationship. She asked for it. On the other hand, if I call her, pursue her, I take full responsibility and feel really awful if it doesn’t work out”. So much for Woman’s Lib “benefits”.

Women who are in “the mans” working world full time think it is O.K. to ask a man out, call him, pursue him. Lets face it girls if he isn’t strong or interested enough to pick up the phone and call you, he sure as hell isn’t relationship material.

Talk is cheap. Action speaks louder than words. Does he call you after the date? Does compliment you (besides) the time he wants to make love. Does he make sure you’re feeling O.K. about your intimate relationship with him?

“A man marries woman because he is afraid he will loose her if he doesn’t.” The internet can be your best friend. It puts women in a position of power. If he doesn’t call, go out. Don’t sit home. The best way to get over one man is to get another one. The longer you wait the harder it is to fill that empty spot.

There is no shortage of caring men if you don’t waste your time on the ones that can’t, don’t, or won’t.